I Don't Know What To Do With My Life

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div style="line-height: normal;"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; text-align: justify;"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWu9fQfWk2VGw54egplJrl594ngOjHrN2k8gjJzyGJwKp6ze3KpUDzO2_qJKthC_d1HB89fkPqSYOFs_7O5Vxp2tTW-JXpNMLCvTNd_3Aa7E3LdHLkUb4k77eW5OLJraBOKb0gapH5JAI/s1600/what-should-I-do-with-my-life-now.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="A lot of people find themselves in a place where they think I Don't Know What to Do With My Life" border="0" height="358" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWu9fQfWk2VGw54egplJrl594ngOjHrN2k8gjJzyGJwKp6ze3KpUDzO2_qJKthC_d1HB89fkPqSYOFs_7O5Vxp2tTW-JXpNMLCvTNd_3Aa7E3LdHLkUb4k77eW5OLJraBOKb0gapH5JAI/s1600/what-should-I-do-with-my-life-now.jpg" title="I Don't Know What to Do With My Life" width="800" /></a></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <br /></div> <span style="font-kerning: none;">A lot of people find themselves in a place where they think 'I don't know what to do with my life.' Now, that isn't necessarily true. What we mean by not knowing what to do with our lives is that we have so many options to choose from, but we just don't know which is the right one to choose.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">I've been in a position recently where I've found myself saying, more often than I'd like, that I don't know what I should do with my life. Although, the reality is that I have a few different career/life options in mind and I just don't have a frickin clue which one to pick.</span><br /> <a name='more'></a></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">I'm not going to lie, sometimes I stay awake for hours at night thinking about which road is the right one to take (this suddenly seems like a Miley Cyrus circa 2009 song) which can lead to a lot of stress and anxiety, which can then lead to everything being too much to handle and completely shutting down, then back to square one.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">It's so easy to get filled with doubt and think, 'what if that doesn't work out', 'what if I end up hating that,' or 'I'll be in so much debt if I do that, I don't know if it's worth it.' </span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">We get caught up in this idea that everyone has to have life figured out by a certain age and if we're still at stage one when someone else is at stage 5, then we're failing. Truth is, that's completely false. I'm sure you've heard of the term, 'Don't compare your hustle to their highlight reel.' Even if you're still in your hustle and others around you have reached their highlight reel, don't compare it. Keep hustling.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">I don't feel completely qualified to tell you exactly what to do with your life, seeing as I haven't quite figured that out myself, but what I can give you is advice on how to get there. The best way I've found is to try as many things as possible. Say you have 10 things in mind that you could possibly see yourself doing in the future, go out and try those things on a small scale first. This could be work experience, volunteering, self employment, a hobby or anything that gives you a feel for it.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; text-align: justify;"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh81-lmXmt4dYonLCYxXFrH4aRD2CaVeLGPHszOSZVJvshc_-7ueasYJnprHiPdm17X6g-9mMsv8wn-TtS02l5Pm19oCeLw4YOo981O-GND7aGe8iOZURGUAzrv6wDZ4n4N6gMQniZhxSA/s1600/i-dont-know-what-to-do-with-my-life.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="A lot of people find themselves in a place where they think I Don't Know What to Do With My Life" border="0" height="426" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh81-lmXmt4dYonLCYxXFrH4aRD2CaVeLGPHszOSZVJvshc_-7ueasYJnprHiPdm17X6g-9mMsv8wn-TtS02l5Pm19oCeLw4YOo981O-GND7aGe8iOZURGUAzrv6wDZ4n4N6gMQniZhxSA/s1600/i-dont-know-what-to-do-with-my-life.jpg" title="I Don't Know What to Do With My Life" width="640" /></a></div> <span style="font-kerning: none;">I've pretty much lost count of the things I've tried my hand at just to grow as a person and narrow down my choices. I've joined acting classes, started martial arts, worked in a shoe shop, been a musician, started a Youtube channel and even a blog (and here we are!)</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Although I didn't continue on with some of those things, they built my confidence and helped me to decide what I enjoyed and what wasn't for me.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">I'm flying to a new city next week to check out a course I'm interested in and get a feel for the place, I have no idea how it'll turn out or if I'll like it but the only way to know is if I try. Another thing I haven't mentioned before is that I'm writing a book! I haven't been given a book deal and I'm not being paid to write it, I'm doing it purely because I enjoy it and hey who knows, maybe I'll try and get it published one day! (Emily from the future if you're reading this, kudos if you're a published author girl!)</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">The point is, is that I'm trying out everything that I can that interests me, to find out where I belong in this crazy world and you should too.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">A lot of people also suggest travelling is a good way to 'find yourself' or discover your purpose in life and although that's not something I've tried myself, I am thinking about travelling to discover new cultures and develop my interests. (Ok I've gone off on a, 'just be free, man', tangent)</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">I guess what I'm trying to say is that if you don't know what the heck to do with your life, don't stress about it, because neither do most people. Try something new, join a class, take up a part time job, start a blog, travel, do anything that can make you grow as a person to find your niche and discover what really makes you happy in life, and once you narrow it down to the one thing that gives you the most fulfilment, go for it!</span><br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgX6huKY8h56XhIJIDSX-dqmOP5ySCA8pDids-PtR2JwfB1eArSlAFEPXROsVSdNsA9BteLrVoAkELyI_Ag5M8xPjA40yV-eN6PCT_4N7b8ZeNMsPz6J1wFDPbp8EhVZBq8xNWMwXJUnZI/s1600/belfast-city.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="A lot of people find themselves in a place where they think I Don't Know What to Do With My Life" border="0" height="362" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgX6huKY8h56XhIJIDSX-dqmOP5ySCA8pDids-PtR2JwfB1eArSlAFEPXROsVSdNsA9BteLrVoAkELyI_Ag5M8xPjA40yV-eN6PCT_4N7b8ZeNMsPz6J1wFDPbp8EhVZBq8xNWMwXJUnZI/s1600/belfast-city.jpg" title="I Don't Know What to Do With My Life" width="640" /></a></div> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Let me know if you've had any experience or tips on finding your purpose in life. Emily x</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; text-align: justify;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"> </div> </div> <!-- Go to www.addthis.com/dashboard to customize your tools -->

I Don't Know What To Do With My Life

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10 Reasons Why You Should Follow Your Dreams

<div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal;"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"> </div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKazMyTsosslgeQMdI8LcVTEBalxqkk166uzO5H2A_gMjTL4FPTyFpy05bK9xkYYnl0Tt2ldJLqPHd9NhTdqvqTgpUvyEFSynKcHwJEc0RNhiNHUXmrMp8_6x4jZXc1fNUzGAGsByiIHY/s1600/follow-your-dreams-blog.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt=" As a child I was told to reach for the sky and follow my dreams 10 Reasons Why You Should Follow Your Dreams" border="0" height="426" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKazMyTsosslgeQMdI8LcVTEBalxqkk166uzO5H2A_gMjTL4FPTyFpy05bK9xkYYnl0Tt2ldJLqPHd9NhTdqvqTgpUvyEFSynKcHwJEc0RNhiNHUXmrMp8_6x4jZXc1fNUzGAGsByiIHY/s1600/follow-your-dreams-blog.jpg" title="10 Reasons Why You Should Follow Your Dreams" width="640" /></a></div> <span style="font-kerning: none;">I'm a dreamer. I'm a BIG dreamer. As a child I was told to reach for the sky and follow my dreams, but as an adult I'm told to get my head out of the clouds. Well, my dreams are intact and my head remains firmly in the clouds and I'm going to tell <i>you</i> why you should </span><span style="font-kerning: none; text-decoration: underline;">never</span><span style="font-kerning: none;"> stop following your dreams. (queue kick-ass music)</span><br /> <a name='more'></a></div> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 22px;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Everyone has dreams. Whether it be landing that dream job, starting a business, finding happiness or falling in love, we all dream. The difference is some choose to accept reality and others go out and chase it.</span></div> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 22px;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">I'm not going to divulge exactly what my dreams are (I'll let you know when I reach them) but I'm on the road to achieving them and here are ten reasons why it's important to follow yours. </span></div> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 22px;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> </div> <div style="font-family: avenir; line-height: normal;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="font-kerning: none;">1. </span><span style="font-kerning: none; text-decoration: underline;">You could be right around the corner from it</span></span></div> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 22px;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">You might feel like a million miles away from achieving your dream, but never let that stop you from working towards it because you could be so close to reaching it. The day you talk yourself out of it could be the day before you made it, so be patient and never stop chasing it.</span></div> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 22px;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> </div> <div style="font-family: avenir; line-height: normal;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="font-kerning: none;">2. </span><span style="font-kerning: none; text-decoration: underline;">Ask yourself, can I live my entire life knowing I didn't try it?</span></span></div> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 22px;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">If the answer is no, then do not give up. When I'm unsure whether I should pursue something, I imagine myself when I'm old looking back on my life and think, would I regret it if I didn't go after it? If the answer is yes then I make a point to definitely do it because I know it's a chance worth taking. If you want to make it happen, you'll find a way, if you don't, you'll find an excuse.</span></div> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 22px;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> </div> <div style="font-family: avenir; line-height: normal;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="font-kerning: none;">3. </span><span style="font-kerning: none; text-decoration: underline;">You get one life. ONE.</span></span></div> </div> <div style="font-family: avenir; line-height: normal; min-height: 22px;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">There ain't no second chances or do-overs, we get one ride on this crazy rollercoaster called life so make it count. In saying that, it's never too late to follow your dreams. If you think, 'I'm too old now' or 'I should of done it when I was younger', that should never put you off. In the least morbid way possible, it's only too late when you're dead, so go get em!</span></div> </div> <div style="font-family: avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 22px; text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="font-family: avenir; line-height: normal;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="font-kerning: none;">4. </span><span style="font-kerning: none; text-decoration: underline;">You can achieve it, and you will achieve it</span></span></div> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 22px;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">If you want something bad enough in this world, you can get it. There are ways and means to get to where you want to be. You can be anything in this world, anything at all, you just have to be persistent and work hard enough and you will get there. You might think, but there are so many reasons why I can't do what I really want to do, the great thing about problems is that there are always solutions. Find the solutions, solve the problems and you're on your way to achieving your dream.</span></div> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 22px;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> </div> <div style="font-family: avenir; line-height: normal;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="font-kerning: none;">5. </span><span style="font-kerning: none; text-decoration: underline;">The only person who needs to believe in you is YOU</span></span></div> </div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="line-height: normal;"> <div style="font-family: avenir; font-size: 16px;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">As long as you believe in yourself, you will get to where you want to be in life. You don't need people to tell you you can make it, <i>you</i> decide the life you live and only you have the power to make change. Once your mind is set on a goal, no one can stop you from achieving it. The only things you'll regret in life are the chances you didn't take.</span></div> </div> <div style="font-family: avenir; font-size: 16px;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><br /></span></div> </div> <div style="font-family: avenir;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none; font-size: x-large;">6. <u>You have potential to achieve greatness</u></span></div> <div style="font-size: 16px; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><u><br /></u></span></div> <div style="font-size: 16px; text-align: justify;"> Chances are that if you're passionate about something you'll want to be successful in it and all you need to unlock that potential is the drive to start working towards it now. You could be the best at what you want to be and your determination will bring you to the top. You can live the life you've always wanted, nobody is stopping you. Nothing ventured nothing gained.</div> </div> <div style="font-family: avenir; font-size: 16px;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><u><br /></u></span></div> </div> <div style="font-family: avenir;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-size: x-large;">7. <u>You could be the person telling others to achieve their dream</u></span></div> </div> <div style="font-family: avenir;"> <div style="font-size: 16px; text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="font-size: 16px; text-align: justify;"> Think two years down the line. If you start now, you could be the person explaining to others how you achieved your dream and got to where you want to be. You can inspire other people by having the courage to be different from everyone else and take the road less travelled.</div> <div style="font-size: 16px; text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="line-height: normal;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="font-kerning: none;">8. </span><span style="font-kerning: none; text-decoration: underline;">If worst comes to worst, you can start over again</span></span></div> </div> <div style="font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 22px;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> </div> <div style="font-size: 16px; line-height: normal;"> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">If you're scared that your dream is too risky or it's impossible to achieve, the only way to know is to try. The worst that can happen is that it doesn't work out the first time and you go back to doing what you're doing now, nothing bad comes out of trying. And if it doesn't work out, come at it from a different angle and try again.</span></div> </div> <div style="font-size: 16px; text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-size: x-large;">9. <u>Show everyone that you <i>can</i> be the best</u></span></div> <div style="font-size: 16px; text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="font-size: 16px; text-align: justify;"> Prove everyone wrong. Prove yourself wrong. All those doubts you have swimming around in your head, shut them out and show the world how much you have to offer. Only a small percent of people actually go after their dreams, be part of that percentage.</div> <div style="font-size: 16px; text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-size: x-large;">10. <u>It gives you something to live for</u></span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><br /></span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">I spend 90% of everyday working towards my dream (the other 10% is spent sleeping and eating). People who follow their passions tend to be obsessed with them. It creates a fire within you. I can't imagine a world where I just give up and accept the life around me. I wake up with drive and ambition every single day and even in the face of adversity I never give up. You will have so much more to live for when you start doing what you know you're meant to do.</span><br /> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><br /></span> <span style="font-kerning: none;">If you're still unsure what your dream is then have a read on my tips on <a href="https://justandmyguys.blogspot.com//search?q="><span style="color: blue;">how to figure out what to do with your life.</span></a></span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; min-height: 22px; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> </div> <div style="font-family: avenir; line-height: normal;"> <div style="font-size: 16px;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">I can't stress enough how important it is to follow your dreams. Make yourself proud  and when you look back on your life, you'll be able to thank yourself for going through with it and following your dream. Find the motivation and create a beautiful life for yourself. Emily x</span></div> <div style="text-align: center;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Pin it for later</span></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; font-size: 16px; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjF5gW-PwEJshgfxZ6WMUzyXZEJPTpNfN3aVu_aRQIVfzEblv8i5CUVAewi7PLcr6CrDNftgEzVShLGD_-2-JIK2mcx5CeyGpuhePOnCgGNtjb4snFFzBxXPYXSoVmAz8CPdDfXsu80hVk/s1600/10+Reasons+why+you+should+follow+your+dreams+2017.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt=" As a child I was told to reach for the sky and follow my dreams 10 Reasons Why You Should Follow Your Dreams" border="0" data-original-height="1102" data-original-width="735" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjF5gW-PwEJshgfxZ6WMUzyXZEJPTpNfN3aVu_aRQIVfzEblv8i5CUVAewi7PLcr6CrDNftgEzVShLGD_-2-JIK2mcx5CeyGpuhePOnCgGNtjb4snFFzBxXPYXSoVmAz8CPdDfXsu80hVk/s1600/10+Reasons+why+you+should+follow+your+dreams+2017.png" title="10 Reasons Why You Should Follow Your Dreams" width="285" /></a></div> <div style="font-size: 16px; text-align: center;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><br /></span></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; font-size: 16px; text-align: center;"> </div> </div> </div> </div> <!-- Go to www.addthis.com/dashboard to customize your tools -->

10 Reasons Why You Should Follow Your Dreams

I'm a dreamer. I'm a BIG dreamer. As a child I was told to reach for the sky and follow my dreams, but as an adult I'm told to get my head out of the clouds. Well, my dreams …

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How To Get Anything You Want In Life: 6 Simple Rules

<div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <img alt="When you learn that you have the power to achieve anything you want in life How To Get Anything You Want In Life: 6 Simple Rules" border="0" data-original-height="1350" data-original-width="735" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkDwtY1yGH06XNpAERowZuYqYTbzsepahyLr_L_8rkv_NNvmJQe1KZA2q5dJ6ml93FQ6bBcg_-aNVASVixmyiXuvgIef3iv2Bir5tCbRQ1bk_BbtWnYbCMZRSMd-0JOwe7ebQopTabhTw/s1600/how+to+get+anything+you+want+in+life.png" title="How To Get Anything You Want In Life: 6 Simple Rules" width="348" /></div> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><br /></span> <span style="font-kerning: none;">When you learn that you have the power to achieve anything you want in life, you open up a whole world of possibilities. You can get anything you want in life when you realise that <i style="font-weight: bold;">you have the power to do so, </i>all you need is to learn the simple but crucial steps to getting the life you want.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 26px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">You might be asking yourself, how do I get what I want in life? The one thing that taught me everything about getting what I want in life is <a href="https://amzn.to/2Gm9LTf"><span style="color: #e06666;"><i>The Secret</i></span></a>. I read this book and it completely changed the way I think and the decisions I make. I'll explain the main concepts I learnt from <a href="https://amzn.to/2Gm9LTf"><span style="color: #e06666;"><i>The Secret</i></span></a> and how you can use them in your life too to get anything you want.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 26px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">To get what you want in life, <b>you need to <i>attract</i> the things you want</b> and constantly remind yourself of what your goals are. Picture your ideal life in your mind every day and focus your energy solely on that. The more you convince yourself that you will get what you want, the more likely it is that you will actually achieve it.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 18px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 25px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">It may seem like some crazy spiritual idea, but after reading <a href="https://amzn.to/2Gm9LTf"><span style="color: #e06666;"><i>The Secret</i></span></a> I started to practice the following tips and I began to get the things I've always wanted in life, purely from changing the way I use my own thoughts and my mind.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 26px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">You can achieve anything with a powerful mind. The mind is one of the most powerful things, yet many people don't use it to its full advantage. There is no limit to what you can achieve in life and by using your mind you will get anything and everything that you want, no matter how big.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 26px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Many people aspire to achieve things in life such as:</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 26px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin-left: 36px; text-align: left; text-indent: -36px;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>•<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Financial freedom</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin-left: 36px; text-align: left; text-indent: -36px;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>•<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>A dream career</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin-left: 36px; text-align: left; text-indent: -36px;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>•<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Money</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin-left: 36px; text-align: left; text-indent: -36px;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>•<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Success</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin-left: 36px; text-align: left; text-indent: -36px;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>•<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Happiness</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin-left: 36px; text-align: left; text-indent: -36px;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>•<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Love</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin-left: 36px; text-align: left; text-indent: -36px;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>•<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Fulfilment in life</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin-left: 36px; text-align: left; text-indent: -36px;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>•<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Being able to travel</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin-left: 36px; text-align: left; text-indent: -36px;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>•<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Fitness and health</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin-left: 36px; text-align: left; text-indent: -36px;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>•<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Fame</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin-left: 36px; text-align: left; text-indent: -36px;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>•<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Peace</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin-left: 36px; min-height: 26px; text-align: left; text-indent: -36px;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">These are only some of the things that people want in life. Some are smaller, more manageable goals and some may seem like vast, far off ideas. The secret is, everything on that list is achievable by every single person in this world. Some people will focus on one specific goal and some will want to achieve several. There's no limit to what you can get in life and you have the ability to get every single one of those things.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 18px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 25px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: "Avenir Next Condensed"; font-size: 38px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><b>The Law Of Attraction</b></span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 18px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 25px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">The law of attraction is how we attract things into our lives. You are doing it every day without noticing and once you understand how to use the law of attraction, you'll be able to attract anything you want into your life through the thoughts you put into the universe.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 26px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Everything currently in your life is down to the decisions you've made so far. Only <i>you</i> can change the way your life is and you are the only person fully in control of your circumstances. Something I regularly tell myself is, 'If I'm unhappy, I'm the only one who can change it.' Your life is in your hands and you truly have the power to change it to anything you want it to be. It may not happen overnight or in a week, but with persistence, the right mindset and practicing the law of attraction every day, you will without a doubt, reach your goals.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 26px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">I highly recommend you to read <a href="https://amzn.to/2Gm9LTf"><i><span style="color: #e06666;">The Secret by Rhonda Byrne</span></i></a> as it explains the law of attraction in great detail. Some of the main concepts of the law of attraction are:</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 26px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span></div> <ul> <li style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="font-kerning: none;">Like attracts like, so when you think a thought, you are also attracting similar thoughts to you.</span></li> <li style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="font-kerning: none;">Your current thoughts are creating your future life. What you think about the most or focus on the most will appear as your life.</span></li> <li style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="font-kerning: none;">Your thoughts become things.</span></li> <li style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="font-kerning: none;">You're like a human transmission tower, transmitting a frequency with your thoughts. If you want to change anything in your life, change the frequency by changing your thoughts.</span></li> <li style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="font-kerning: none;">The way to get anything you want is to summon it through persistent thoughts.</span></li> </ul> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin-left: 36px; min-height: 26px; text-align: left; text-indent: -36px;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><a href="https://amzn.to/2Gm9LTf"><span style="color: #e06666;"><i>The Secret</i></span></a> explains how you can be, have, or do anything you want and how to use the power of the Secret in your everyday life.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 18px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 25px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: "Avenir Next Condensed"; font-size: 38px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><b>How To Achieve Anything You Want</b></span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 18px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 25px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">These are the 6 simple rules on getting anything you want in life and how to achieve everything you want.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 18px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 25px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: "Avenir Next Condensed"; font-size: 38px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">1. Manifesting What You Want</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 18px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 25px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">To manifest something is to bring things into existence and for those things to show up in your life. This reiterates the idea that our thinking creates our reality. The more you think about a thing, the more that thing will show up in your life. If you constantly have negative thoughts, those thoughts will manifest themselves into your life and make you feel negative. Instead, you need to focus on the positive aspects of your life and focus only on the positives of what you're trying to achieve.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 26px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Don't focus on what you don't have, focus on what you're going to have when you reach your goal. Focus on what your life will be like whenever you get what you're aiming for.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 26px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">If you tell yourself, 'I want to go after my dream, but I don't want to run out of money,' then you will run out of money. If you tell yourself, 'I don't want to be unhappy,' then you will be unhappy. <b>Whether you say you want it or not, it will happen to you, </b></span><b>because you're thinking about it.</b></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 26px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">That's why you need to stop yourself from saying the 'I don'ts' or 'I can't' or 'No, because.' These negative thoughts will manifest into your life because you're thinking them, so stop thinking about them completely.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 26px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">If you wan't to manifest something into your life, keep it in your thoughts at all times and tell yourself, 'I will get this goal' and 'This is what my life will be like when I reach my goal.'</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 26px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Start with small things to manifest in your life and work your way up to get whatever you want by keeping it in your thoughts and telling yourself 'I will.' Ask the universe for it and it will grant it to you.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 26px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">'It is as easy to manifest one dollar as it is to manifest one million dollars,' - <a href="https://amzn.to/2Gm9LTf"><span style="color: #e06666;"><i>The Secret</i></span></a></span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 18px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 25px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: "Avenir Next Condensed"; font-size: 38px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">2. Be Clear On Your Goal</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 18px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 25px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">To get what you want in life, you need to know exactly what it is that you want. If you're not sure on what you want, then it will never happen because you don't know exactly what you're asking for. Write down on a piece of paper exactly what you want in life and visualise it. Know every aspect of what you want and see the end goal in your mind.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 26px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">If you're not sure on what your goal is, ask yourself what makes you the most happy in life and focus on that. Once you focus on what makes you happy, you'll attract a lot of other things into your life that make you happy. 'Expect the things that you want, and don't expect the things that you don't want.' - <a href="https://amzn.to/2Gm9LTf"><span style="color: #e06666;"><i>The Secret.</i></span></a></span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 18px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 25px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: "Avenir Next Condensed"; font-size: 38px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">3. Remind Yourself Constantly</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 18px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 25px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">You've probably realised by now that the only person who can create your perfect life, is you. As spiritual mumbo-jumbo as it sounds, your thoughts are the one thing holding you back from getting anything you want. Keep reminding yourself everyday of what you're working towards and what actions you're taking to reach your goal. Tell yourself things like 'I'm going to be...' 'In a few months I'll have achieved...' 'I'm going to wake up and do...' Visualise your life when you get what you want and keep it in your mind at all times.</span> <br /> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><br /></span> <br /> <div class="mailmunch-forms-widget-614785"> </div> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 18px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 25px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-family: "avenir next condensed"; font-size: 38px;">4. Convince Yourself Of Success</span><span style="font-kerning: none;"></span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 18px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 25px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">A great way to create your dream life is to convince yourself that you <i>will</i> get everything you want and more. You need to believe in yourself and the laws of attraction that you will get what you want no matter what. <a href="https://amzn.to/2Gm9LTf"><span style="color: #e06666;"><i>The Secret</i></span></a> teaches that believing involves 'acting, speaking and thinking as though you have already received what you want, the law of attraction moves people, events, and circumstances for you to receive whatever it is you want.'</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 18px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 25px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: "Avenir Next Condensed"; font-size: 38px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">5. Visualize The End Goal</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 18px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 25px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">One of the most important things I learned from reading <a href="https://amzn.to/2Gm9LTf"><span style="color: #e06666;"><i>The Secret</i></span></a> is that 'Visualisation is the process of creating pictures in your mind of yourself enjoying what you want. When you visualise, you generate powerful thoughts and feelings of having it now. The law of attraction then returns that reality to you, just as you saw it in your mind.'</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 26px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Paint a picture in your head of your ideal life. If you visualise the life you want constantly, you'll be more determined to succeed in achieving that life when it becomes clear in your mind. Imagine it, see yourself living it, visualise how your life will change.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 18px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 25px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: "Avenir Next Condensed"; font-size: 38px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">6. Trust In The Process</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 18px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 25px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Many people give up on getting what they want because they don't believe that they'll actually get it or they think it's too risky or it's never going to happen. You need to trust in your own thoughts and actions that you will make this happen and there's not one thing that's going to stop you. The more positive thoughts you put out into the universe, the more you'll see your goals manifesting into reality.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 26px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 19px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">It's all about changing your mindset and convincing yourself that you'll achieve anything you want and you attract the energy that you put out. The law of attraction is a universal law that works with or without you knowing it so it's worthwhile to start using the law of attraction today to start getting the things you want in life instantly.</span><br /> <div style="text-align: center;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><br /></span> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Pin it for later:</span></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHol0hOgBk7k0blDyabhclFK0cvNJysOY9cd1zNiFWpYjwqApyS-VpK_voUwLvbjnE53IbZ9wJBI_GsFKKPDjYz3sPwgAIu9jC7p-FXnAMZeIW9Zt4fSCqoSeaKIGwyxyrvrwNSaMWrmM/s1600/how+to+get+anything+you+want+in+life.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="When you learn that you have the power to achieve anything you want in life How To Get Anything You Want In Life: 6 Simple Rules" border="0" data-original-height="1350" data-original-width="735" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHol0hOgBk7k0blDyabhclFK0cvNJysOY9cd1zNiFWpYjwqApyS-VpK_voUwLvbjnE53IbZ9wJBI_GsFKKPDjYz3sPwgAIu9jC7p-FXnAMZeIW9Zt4fSCqoSeaKIGwyxyrvrwNSaMWrmM/s1600/how+to+get+anything+you+want+in+life.png" title="How To Get Anything You Want In Life: 6 Simple Rules" width="217" /></a></div> </div>

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Why You Need To Stop Being Afraid Of Being A Feminist

<div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjxdTNUtDKZF_RnLKQ__yCXAAJDqMt-MVceuA3tZQgv_ahfUUnxJON5ZuP_qvZvJbX0I2G2f5pW3sL7nKAHWl8DGoeAF5NPU-oH9G5v9h80MuUUWnIB3860wgEAOsW49Or3FFR__Rl8Z-w/s1600/feminism.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="t something to be scared of and being a feminist sure as hell isn Why You Need to STOP Being Afraid of Being A Feminist" border="0" data-original-height="1400" data-original-width="735" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjxdTNUtDKZF_RnLKQ__yCXAAJDqMt-MVceuA3tZQgv_ahfUUnxJON5ZuP_qvZvJbX0I2G2f5pW3sL7nKAHWl8DGoeAF5NPU-oH9G5v9h80MuUUWnIB3860wgEAOsW49Or3FFR__Rl8Z-w/s1600/feminism.png" title="Why You Need to STOP Being Afraid of Being A Feminist" width="336" /></a></div> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><br /></span> <span style="font-kerning: none;">I used to be afraid of the term 'feminism.' I'd hear the word 'feminist' and think of some crazy man-hating army, coming to attack men for everything. Oh how wrong I was. Feminism isn't something to be scared of and being a feminist sure as hell isn't a bad thing. If anything, every man and woman on this planet should be a feminist.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 27px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">For a while I even told people I wasn't a feminist, out of fear of being seen as this male bashing person who hates all men and is out to get them. However, when I learnt the true meaning of feminism, I realised there is a huge misconception of what being a feminist really is. It's nothing to be scared of, it's nothing the be ashamed about, it's not about a witch hunt against men, it's purely about working for equality of all genders.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 27px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Once I learned the correct meaning of what being a feminist was, I realised that I've been a feminist this whole time, and you should be one too.</span><br /> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><br /></span> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Read: <a href="https://amzn.to/2Hre3wf"><span style="color: #e06666;">#Girlboss by Sophia Amoruso</span></a></span><br /> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Read: <a href="https://amzn.to/2vp4Foh"><span style="color: #e06666;">You Are A Badass</span></a></span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 27px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: "Avenir Next Condensed"; font-size: 38px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">What Is A Feminist?</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 27px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><i>A feminist is someone who supports the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of equality of the sexes.</i> It's a simple as that. Essentially, feminism is the same as equal rights.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 27px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Feminism isn't:</span></div> <ul> <li style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: "times"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"></span><span style="font-kerning: none;">Hating men</span></li> <li style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: "times"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"></span><span style="font-kerning: none;">Wanting women to be superior to men</span></li> <li style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: "times"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"></span><span style="font-kerning: none;">Siding with women</span></li> <li style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: "times"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"></span><span style="font-kerning: none;">Being sexist against men</span></li> <li style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: "times"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"></span><span style="font-kerning: none;">Something only women can be a part of</span></li> <li style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: "times"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"></span><span style="font-kerning: none;">Something people should hate or be afraid of</span></li> </ul> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><br /></span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">The main misconception of feminism is that people think feminists hate men. Let me repeat that: <b>Feminism is not about hating men.</b></span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 27px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Many people use the word 'feminist' as an insult or name-calling, when they don't even realise what it means. I've had many occasions where I'm standing up for women in an argument and the other person has responded with, 'Oh here comes the feminist,' or 'Ok calm down, feminist.' They don't even realise that they're calling me a woman who supports equality for men and women, they think they're insulting me and calling me a man-hater.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 27px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">It's about time we educate ourselves and others about what feminism really means because I'm sick of the majority of people thinking that being a feminist is a bad thing. You don't have to be rallying in marches everyday to be a feminist, you can be a feminist purely by teaching your friends and family about what it really means.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 27px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: "Avenir Next Condensed"; font-size: 38px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Feminism Isn't Only For Women</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 27px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Being sexist means that you don't support equality for women and men. If you're afraid to call yourself a feminist that means you're afraid to support equal rights between men and women. A lot of people don't realise that men need to be feminists just as much as women do, it's a two sided fight. You can stand up for equal rights whether you're a man or a woman and people need to realise that feminism is for everyone.</span><br /> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><br /></span> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Read: <a href="https://justandmyguys.blogspot.com//search?q=how-to-get-anything-you-want-in-life"><span style="color: #e06666;">The Secret To Getting Everything You Want In Life</span></a></span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 27px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Feminism isn't a bad word and people shouldn't shy away from it in society. Feminism is something to be proud of. It means you're standing up against inequality in the world and having a voice. There are huge inequalities between men and women currently, such as the gender pay gap meaning that men still get paid more than women is the majority of countries and working industries in the world. If you want to stand up against that then be a feminist and make your voice heard.</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><br /></span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-family: "avenir next condensed"; font-size: 38px;">Feminist Pride</span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; min-height: 27px; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"></span><br /></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"> </div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">The word 'feminist' might sound too radical and progressive to some, but there's nothing aggressive and bold about simply wanting equality and fairness between genders. Although we have gotten a lot closer in having a more proudly feminist society, there is still a lot of work to be done in achieving equality for women. Heck, this time last year I never thought I'd be sat here writing an article on why I'm a proud feminist. </span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><br /></span></div> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: Avenir; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: left;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">It was when I really realised the true meaning of the word that I noticed how important it is that we all stand together and stop being afraid of feminism. Feminism isn't something to be feared, it's something to be proud of. Let's empower each other and work towards a future of equality.</span><br /> <span style="font-kerning: none;"><br /></span> <br /> <div style="text-align: center;"> <span style="font-kerning: none;">Pin it for later:</span></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhvT0eSpgwp6r3kY5sUOr2ru2nKhXfkHqWF4mALH8wlxEOM0-UUwpBiExVzHsl9s0-SxJjnv2FbAxJhhnBqG8LfLD7clQ2qFaBcIHNwd-9Cu5uuvEb1to2Dj7vFmTEZD6Vjrjf_WeBcNi0/s1600/feminism.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="t something to be scared of and being a feminist sure as hell isn Why You Need to STOP Being Afraid of Being A Feminist" border="0" data-original-height="1400" data-original-width="735" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhvT0eSpgwp6r3kY5sUOr2ru2nKhXfkHqWF4mALH8wlxEOM0-UUwpBiExVzHsl9s0-SxJjnv2FbAxJhhnBqG8LfLD7clQ2qFaBcIHNwd-9Cu5uuvEb1to2Dj7vFmTEZD6Vjrjf_WeBcNi0/s1600/feminism.png" title="Why You Need to STOP Being Afraid of Being A Feminist" width="210" /></a></div> </div>

Why You Need To Stop Being Afraid Of Being A Feminist

I used to be afraid of the term 'feminism.' I'd hear the word 'feminist' and think of some crazy man-hating army, coming to attack men for everything. Oh how wrong I was. Feminism isn't something …

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